Mariah Carey and her truths about her life

One thing we can say is that Mariah Carey is the epitome of success and class. Despite what a lot of people think, she has a great head on her shoulders. Now honestly, let’s not judge her for the marriage she had to Nick Cannon. Let’s just pretend it didn’t happen. Every woman does something in life that she’s not proud of. Some of you are still with your Nick.

The story of Nick is pretty simple. Nick was a little boy with big man dreams. He pursued Mariah relentlessly which gave her the impression that he was serious. Ultimately she was just another notch on his belt. That’s not necessarily her fault though. Many women fall for that persistence pays off bullshit. We feel like if he is willing to chase you this much then he must really want you. Well they do want you. But want you for what?

Nobody has time for the likes of Nick. Nobody wants to be used and tested on. I’m not your Guinea pig.

So naturally when a woman sees the efforts of a man and they are exactly what people say they are supposed to be, then it’s easy to fall prey to the game. But haven’t you seen a man I mean dog chase a bone or chase another female dog? They are persistent. He doesn’t stay around. He plants his seed and gets the fuck outta there. That’s what Nick did. But he thought Mariah was going to suffer. He thought that because she was older that she’d be insecure and would feel that she’s lucky to have a young man like him on her arms. He basically pulled a RAY J.

But I don’t think he read or remembered her resume. Nobody fucks with Mary P.

So she talks about how she is happy that she had 2 gorgeous kids, but also she wishes she hadn’t repeated the history of her parents by getting divorced. Her parents were divorced when she was 3.  I understand that. Shit happens. But she’s got beautiful kids and that’s all that matters. …well other than the BILLIONAIRE she’s gonna marry. So she went from Eminem to Nick to James Packer. Man if that ain’t a step up I don’t know what is. She finally got herself a MAN. HOPEFULLY Shes grown too. Which it sounds like she has. A mature woman knows what she wants.

There is this misconception that older women are cougars. Well they can be. But if you really think about it, they don’t have to be. Desperation is what makes women act this way. They end up getting And settling for boy toys. That’s what Nick is. That’s why she cancelled his account. Lol

I’m inspired by Mariah and that’s why I wanted to do this blog. She represents the woman over 40.  And can speak to the youth about how to get what you want out of life. She speaks to when life hands you lemons, make Lemonade . She should also be looked at as an independent girl too. She makes her own money. This new man in her life is very busy and so is she. She says that he is a fan of hers. That is so important. How can you marry someone who isn’t a cheerleader for your success and ideas? She said it is a deal breaker if he wasn’t and I don’t blame her.

HOPEFULLY he will adore her and continue to spoil her. She deserves to have a great love life.